Once you have the venue set, it’s time to create the perfect late-night atmosphere. Decide with your partner what kind of energy you want – then you can move forward with your planning. “Is the after-party space cool on its own or does it need some TLC? Sometimes candles, soft seating and dim lights will do the trick, while other times furniture and disco balls need to be brought in,” says Meyer. “It really depends on the space you’re working with and the sound you want to create!” If you’re redecorating your reception venue for a party, he suggests changing the direction of the space to create a new atmosphere.
Blasina emphasizes that lighting and draping that offset ugly walls can give a space an intimate feel, while a focal bar, signature cocktails, a photo booth, and late-night trinkets, such as glow sticks, sparkling glasses, and flip-flops, can enhance the atmosphere. She’s also a fan of creating a theme for the after-party: that could mean a tiki vibe, a retro disco aesthetic, or leaning into a color scheme.
Get the right tunes
Music is essential to set the tone of the event. If you want guests to dance the night away, hiring a band or DJ is a must to keep the vibes going. “However, make sure the music vibe is different from your wedding by chatting through playlists with your musicians or DJ beforehand,” says Blasina. Although you can hire new artists to bring music to your after-party, check with your reception musicians to see if they are available to work at other events as well.
Arrange a late night meal
One thing that is Absolutely Your after party has essential food to keep your guests fueled into the wee hours of the morning. “Did someone say late-night carbs? Let’s face it, it’s after the party when everyone will be thanking you for those sliders and fries,” shares Blasina. “If you’re not the slider type, go themed with a sushi bar, mini tacos, or pizza slices.” Think of fun ways to serve your bites, such as packaging items from food trucks or Chinese food containers. Although cocktails are a must, make sure water is readily available as well. “Not that everyone will drink it… but having it out and available encourages people to hydrate while they’re celebrating, which makes them party longer and feel better the next day!” The mayor says.
After Marriage After Marriage Etiquette
Since the after party is a more relaxed part of the wedding night, there aren’t as many rules around etiquette. Read on for a little guidance around this post-rehab.
Who usually attends the wedding after party?
The party is then attended by wedding guests who can stay late enough to make it through this part of the night. Sometimes, if the party’s aesthetic or vibe isn’t entirely appropriate for their parents and grandparents, a couple may note that it’s aimed at younger guests. However, it is best not to exclude any wedding guests who wish to attend.
Who pays for the after party?
There is no rule about who pays for the wedding after party, but it is often followed by the bill for the wedding day. A couple can also choose to host the wedding after the wedding itself. If the after party is more casual and spur of the moment, it’s okay to have guests pay for their drinks at the bar.
How long is the wedding after party?
There is no time limit to the wedding after the party. This may last for just one hour after the reception ends or continue until sunrise. The length depends on your capacity, budget and venue rules.
What to wear to a wedding after party?
While most guests will stick to their wedding day attire for the after party, newlyweds can have some fun in the evening and switch up their ensembles. Consider swapping out a long gown for a fun mini, embrace the fabric in sequins, sequins, pearls, or a striking color, and consider switching up your shoes for a look that can help you get through the morning hours.
Do you need to send a separate invitation?
Not necessary. It’s a good idea to give guests a heads-up on the wedding website that your invitation will include or insert information in your invitation suite so they know the timeline for the day. But there’s absolutely no need to send separate invitations or request an RSVP.
